25 Jul Playing with Toys
“Imitate and Expand”
Marcus is 2 ½ years old. I first met Marcus when he was two and have been working to help his grandmother and his parents to best engage and support him. I make sure to use strategies that are both simple and fun.
Autism is a very complex set of disorders, but our expanding knowledge of early brain development has led us to create powerful strategies that can be simplified for parents. I like to keep in mind that being a parent comes with a tremendous amount of responsibility. When a child has special needs, those responsibilities are magnified by the additional charge of engaging their child in therapeutic activities at home to maximize progress. I don’t want to add additional stress by teaching parents strategies that are hard to understand or difficult to fit into their typical routine. That’s what makes the “Imitate and Expand” strategy such a good one!
In the video, you see me teaching Marcus’ grandmother, Renee, how to imitate her grandson. Imitation allowed Renee to tune into Marcus’s interests and join in his play. I like to say that she was “playing at his level” by only doing the same actions as Marcus. After guiding her to sit face to face with him, rather than putting him on her lap, and encouraging her to join in the play by doing what he was doing with the toy, the play activity took on a different feeling. Renee was now playing with Marcus as a play partner.
By playing in this way, a child with an autism spectrum disorder (ASD) learns to let another person into his play space, and increases his tolerance for allowing other people to touch his toys. We’ve found that using the Imitate & Expand strategy can also help young children with ASD begin to make more eye contact, share smiles with others, and interact by giving or sharing toys. When you’re playing in this manner, it also sets the stage for teaching your child the language that is relevant to the activity. I guided Renee to choose a group of words for each toy that I called the “toy vocabulary.” I wanted her to pick out the most important words for Marcus to learn while playing with the toy. There are really no right or wrong words to choose. As long as they are relevant to the activity, I prefer to choose words that name the action and the object such as “go car!”
The final step in the Imitate and Expand strategy is expanding. Once you are tuned into your child’s interests and playing alongside him in the manner that he is playing, you can expand your play. This allows you to teach your child to do something new. I guided Renee to find one simple thing to do with the toy that was different from what Marcus was already doing. She did not need to tell him what to do or make him take the new step. All she needed to do was demonstrate the new action. Since they were already tuned into each other with the toy, he is more apt to imitate her new action than he would have been if she started out teaching this action or directed him to do the new action before he was ready. You can keep this strategy going as long as your child is playing with toys. If he moves on to a different toy, follow his lead and continue to imitate, then expand. You’ll become his play partner and his teacher -all in one!
Speech- Language Pathologist
The Center for Autism & Related Disorders, Kennedy Krieger Institute
JenniferPosted at 14:28h, 25 July
Although my child is older now, I think this is a great example of how parents of kids on the spectrum can sometimes be paralyzed in play because they have a fear of not playing the “right” way. Perphaps they worry about not being able to connect with the child or say the wrong thing (either too much language, the wrong kind, or not enough). This is a great video because of its simplicity.
JeanPosted at 00:37h, 27 July
Great video of beautiful family. I couldn’t agree more with the SLP about the importance of trying to play WITH your little guy. Certainly one of the hardest things for us in the beginning was to stop trying to direct and teach our little boy, which just drove him away, and instead to try simply to engage him with our face and our gestures. It is a no cost therapeutic invention with a huge pay off.